Submitted by:: Sandi - 14-Jul-2017
Work/Life Balance doesn't exist - and while we continue to strive to achieve it, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment.
The phrase itself suggests a couple things that are inherent in the problem:... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 22-Jun-2017
Frankly, no. It's not possible - and we are causing ourselves untold frustration and disappointment while we keep trying to achieve it!
Why do I say this?
Well, think for a minute about the phrase itself -... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 28-Mar-2017
I recently attended a three-day women’s festival that I attended for the first time in 2016. It’s never the same the second, third or umpteenth time around is it? First of all, there’s that ‘first time newness’ that we can only get once. “Wow! Look at that!” “Goodness, that’s amazing!” And so on … because we are seeing things through fresh, first-time eyes.
In our subsequent visits, while we look for that same magic, but logically know it will be different than our beloved ‘first-time’. We then start to notice what’s not there that we liked the previous year(s), and lament “But I really liked that!”
So this year, I decided to focus instead on what was new, different and intriguing. And that’s how I came across The Release Tree.... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 15-Mar-2017
We’ve all heard these definitions …
Courage is not the absence of fear, but the conquering of it. (I’ve seen this attributed to Dan Millman)
Courage is resistance to fear. (Thanks Mark Twain)
Courage is mastery of fear. (Mark Twain again)
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. (Kelly Clarkson made this line famous in her pop song)
In other words, grit your teeth and move on regardless. Tough it out. Toughen up.
A lot of people who know me say I’m one of the most tenacious, determined, “courageous” people they know. And I’ve always kind of liked this. I’m proud that I ‘hang in there’, dig deep and find my way through challenges.
My father (bless you, dad) had a saying that went something like this: “The real measure of a person’s character is how they handle adversity.” And I liked this too – for most of my life.
Whenever I was going through a tough time, I’d remember my dad’s words and think ‘keep going, Sandi – you’re developing character. People will admire you for the fact that you’ve made it through all this crap.’ And so I did keep going (though I’m not sure this really earned me brownie points in the admiration-from-other-people stakes).... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 3-Dec-2014
We often think of 'success' as reaching the goal, or completing the task.
Not true!... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 2-Dec-2014
I have a bad habit.
Being a visual processor, I fall into the bad habit of leaving stuff arund my office so I can see it ... so I don't forget it.
Bad move!... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 4-Oct-2012
It was getting late and I was tired.
The next day I was facilitating a full day session with a client, with a very early start and late finish.
The next day was also my husband's birthday.... read more
Submitted by:: Sandi - 4-Oct-2012
Only 4 days into my blogging challenge and I've already 'fallen off the wagon'.
I'm forgiving myself, though, as the reason i haven't posted for a few days is both sad and important.... read more
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